Each of Us with Hearing Loss is an Advocate

What an honor it was to receive the Ruth R. Green Advocacy Award from Center for Hearing and Communication (CHC) at their 2023 Annual Meeting. Ruth is an advocate who was ahead of her time. She focused on impact, and that is always my goal in all of my work. It is so meaningful to be to be honored in her name. 

Please see my remarks from the event below.

A Long Journey to an Advocacy Award

It has been a long journey for me to receive this award.

I first noticed my hearing loss in my mid-20s, but the journey started well before watching my father struggle with his own hearing issues. He was highly stigmatized by it and would do almost anything to keep it a secret, even growing his hair long over his ears well after that was fashionable.

At family parties he would often be found off by himself. As a child I didn’t understand why, but when I developed my own hearing loss, I understood. He probably was having trouble hearing and couldn’t bring himself to keep trying. When I first discovered my own hearing loss, I hid it, following in his footsteps. I felt embarrassed and ashamed.

This lasted for many years, but once I had children this all changed.

I saw them watching me doing the same things I had watched my father do—hiding my hearing loss and laughing at jokes I hadn’t heard, and I realized I was passing on the stigma to another generation. To break the cycle, I finally decided to accept my hearing loss. I started wearing my hearing aids all the time and teaching my family and friends how to help me hear my best.

I refuse to let my hearing loss isolate me. It isn’t always easy, but it is worth it.

And now I am an advocate for people like me.

Not Alone Battling the Stigma of Hearing Loss

I am not alone in battling the stigma of hearing loss. Many people do. One of the things I try to do with my blog is to share my story in hopes that it will help others to live more comfortably with their own hearing issues.

But the blog didn’t start out that way. At first. it was just for me, as a way to deal with the isolation and the stigma that I felt, and to work through it emotionally. My first 6 months of posting I didn’t even put my name on it! I remember readers commenting every week on the blog — Who is this? Who is writing this?

Eventually, I realized I could have more impact if I was more upfront. So, I began to identify myself. And I have never looked back.

In 2022, I published my first book, co-authored with the wonderful advocate Gael Hannan. Hearing loss does not come with an operating manual, so we decided to write one. The title of the book is Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss and we don’t use the word skillfully lightly. A skill is something that can be taught and something that can be improved with practice. Each of our hearing loss journeys are unique, but we believe that every person with hearing loss can get better at living well with it.

In the book, we describe a three-legged stool of skills for living well with hearing loss. These legs include technology of all sorts, but also the mental aspects of hearing loss and softer skills like speechreading and self-advocacy. Each of the legs is critical and when they work together that’s when the magic happens. This is our philosophy for living well with hearing loss. And it is CHC’s as well.

We are All Hearing Loss Advocates

Each of us with hearing loss is an advocate, whether we realize it or not. Every time we request a quieter seat in a restaurant or ask a colleague or friend to face us when they speak to us, we are advocating for our needs. But we are also educating others about hearing loss, clearing the way for better communication for all people with hearing loss.

And when we come together, like the 80,000 of us that signed the petition during the pandemic that forced Zoom to provide its auto-captions free for people with hearing loss, we can make great strides towards better access.

I thank you again for this wonderful award. It means so much to me to be recognized for my advocacy work, especially from an organization like CHC, that has been a leader in meeting the needs of people with hearing loss for decades.

Together we can continue to impact the world for the better.

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16 thoughts on “Each of Us with Hearing Loss is an Advocate

  1. Hi Shari – you deserved this award totally – well done. You blog and book are a wonderful resource for those, like myself, who suffer from hearing loss. All your hard work is having a very positive impact – so thank you for making the world a better place to live in.

    1. Shari Eberts – NYC – Shari Eberts is a passionate hearing health advocate and internationally recognized author and speaker on hearing loss issues. She is the founder of Living with Hearing Loss, a popular blog and online community for people with hearing loss, and an executive producer of "We Hear You," an award-winning documentary about the hearing loss experience. Her book, "Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss," (co-authored with Gael Hannan) is the ultimate survival guide to living well with hearing loss. Shari has an adult-onset genetic hearing loss and hopes that by sharing her story, she will help others to live more peacefully with their own hearing issues.
      Shari Eberts says:

      Thank you so much for your kind words!

  2. Congratulations! I would add that each of us who has a friend or family member with hearing loss can be an advocate. I recently asked my town to enable captions on Zoom town council meetings. My husband has hearing loss but I’m sure he’s not the only one in our town who would benefit from captions. It’s being looked into but they seem to be having some technical difficulties. I’ll keep at it. If they’re able to make it work, I’ll do what I can to make the wider community aware so more citizens have access to the meetings.

    1. Shari Eberts – NYC – Shari Eberts is a passionate hearing health advocate and internationally recognized author and speaker on hearing loss issues. She is the founder of Living with Hearing Loss, a popular blog and online community for people with hearing loss, and an executive producer of "We Hear You," an award-winning documentary about the hearing loss experience. Her book, "Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss," (co-authored with Gael Hannan) is the ultimate survival guide to living well with hearing loss. Shari has an adult-onset genetic hearing loss and hopes that by sharing her story, she will help others to live more peacefully with their own hearing issues.
      Shari Eberts says:

      Absolutely!! Thank you for your advocacy!

    1. Shari Eberts – NYC – Shari Eberts is a passionate hearing health advocate and internationally recognized author and speaker on hearing loss issues. She is the founder of Living with Hearing Loss, a popular blog and online community for people with hearing loss, and an executive producer of "We Hear You," an award-winning documentary about the hearing loss experience. Her book, "Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss," (co-authored with Gael Hannan) is the ultimate survival guide to living well with hearing loss. Shari has an adult-onset genetic hearing loss and hopes that by sharing her story, she will help others to live more peacefully with their own hearing issues.
      Shari Eberts says:

      Thank you for being part of the community.

  3. Shari, I join others in congratulating you for the recognition you have received for being a strong advocate for those of us with hearing loss. As a result, I am reaching out more than I used to after many years of trying to conceal my hearing aids. Most people are now accustomed to seeing a variety of hearing devices being worn by those with and without hearing loss, and the novelty has worn off. Another advocate I greatly admire recently showed off a festive cover she bought for her cochlear implant processor, and I thought, “my, we have come a long way!” We should all be better advocates for each other. Thank you for showing the way!

    1. Shari Eberts – NYC – Shari Eberts is a passionate hearing health advocate and internationally recognized author and speaker on hearing loss issues. She is the founder of Living with Hearing Loss, a popular blog and online community for people with hearing loss, and an executive producer of "We Hear You," an award-winning documentary about the hearing loss experience. Her book, "Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss," (co-authored with Gael Hannan) is the ultimate survival guide to living well with hearing loss. Shari has an adult-onset genetic hearing loss and hopes that by sharing her story, she will help others to live more peacefully with their own hearing issues.
      Shari Eberts says:

      Thank you for the kind words and good luck on your own advocacy journey! You are on your way!

    1. Shari Eberts – NYC – Shari Eberts is a passionate hearing health advocate and internationally recognized author and speaker on hearing loss issues. She is the founder of Living with Hearing Loss, a popular blog and online community for people with hearing loss, and an executive producer of "We Hear You," an award-winning documentary about the hearing loss experience. Her book, "Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss," (co-authored with Gael Hannan) is the ultimate survival guide to living well with hearing loss. Shari has an adult-onset genetic hearing loss and hopes that by sharing her story, she will help others to live more peacefully with their own hearing issues.
      Shari Eberts says:

      Well said. Thank you for your kind words.

    1. Shari Eberts – NYC – Shari Eberts is a passionate hearing health advocate and internationally recognized author and speaker on hearing loss issues. She is the founder of Living with Hearing Loss, a popular blog and online community for people with hearing loss, and an executive producer of "We Hear You," an award-winning documentary about the hearing loss experience. Her book, "Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss," (co-authored with Gael Hannan) is the ultimate survival guide to living well with hearing loss. Shari has an adult-onset genetic hearing loss and hopes that by sharing her story, she will help others to live more peacefully with their own hearing issues.
      Shari Eberts says:

      Thank you Angela for your kind words.

  4. Congratulations on the very much deserved award. Your book and blog have been an inspiration to me and I took the initiative during my own stay in hospital to explain my hearing difficulties to the staff and other patients and found it so much easier to navigate the difficult time. During the night hours in the dark when the nurses asked questions they wrote them down and flashed a small light on the words to communicate. They worked this out all on their own after being told of my hearing loss. Thanks for giving us strategies for coping with these difficult times.

    1. Shari Eberts – NYC – Shari Eberts is a passionate hearing health advocate and internationally recognized author and speaker on hearing loss issues. She is the founder of Living with Hearing Loss, a popular blog and online community for people with hearing loss, and an executive producer of "We Hear You," an award-winning documentary about the hearing loss experience. Her book, "Hear & Beyond: Live Skillfully with Hearing Loss," (co-authored with Gael Hannan) is the ultimate survival guide to living well with hearing loss. Shari has an adult-onset genetic hearing loss and hopes that by sharing her story, she will help others to live more peacefully with their own hearing issues.
      Shari Eberts says:

      How wonderful! I am so glad you were able to successfully advocate for yourself! Thank you for letting us know.

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